Monday, September 14, 2009

The Missing Rib

A girl in love asked her boyfriend...

Girl (g): Tell me... who do you love most in this world?

Boy (b): You, of course!

(g): In your heart, what am I to you?

(b): The boy thought for a moment and looked intently in her eyes
and said, "You are my rib. In the Bible, it was said that God saw
that Adam was lonely, during his sleep; God took one of Adam's
rib and created Eve. Every man has been searching for his missing
rib, only when you find the woman of your life; you'll no longer
feel the lingering ache in your heart."

After their wedding, the couple had a sweet and happy life for a while.
However, the youthful couple began to drift apart due to the busy schedule
of life and the never-ending worries of daily problems....their life became
mundane....

All the challenges posed by the harsh realities of life began to gnaw away
their dreams and love for each other... The couple began to have more
quarrels and each quarrel became more heated...

One day, after the quarrel, the girl ran out of the house.... At the
opposite side of the road, she shouted, "You don't love me!"

The boy hated her childishness and out of impulse, retorted, "Maybe, it was
a mistake for us to be together! You were never my missing rib!"

Suddenly, she turned quiet and stood there for a long while.... He regretted
what he said but words spoken are like thrown away water, you can never take
it back. With tears, she went home to pack her things and was determined in
breaking-up.

Before she left the house, "If I'm really not your missing rib, please let
me go..... She continued, "It is less painful this way... let us go on our
separate ways and search for our own partners..."

Five years went by....

He never remarried but he had tried to find out about her life
indirectly...... She had left the country and back.... She had married a
foreigner and divorced..... He felt anguished that she never waited for him.

In the dark and lonely night, he lit his cigarette and felt the lingering
ache in his heart. He couldn't bring himself to admit that he was missing
her..

One day, they finally met.... At the airport, a place where there were many
reunions and good-byes.... He was going away on a business trip. She was
standing there alone, with just the security door separating them. She
smiled at him gently.

(b): How are you?

(g): I'm fine. How about you... Have you found your missing rib?

(b): No.

(g): I'll be flying to New York in the next flight.

(b): I'll be back in 2 weeks time. Give me a call when you are
back...You know my number... Nothing has changed.

With a smile, she turned around and waved good-bye..

Good-bye.....

One week later, he heard of her death. She had perished in New York. In the
event that shocked the world..

Midnight..... Once again, he lit his cigarette..... And like before, he felt
the lingering ache in his heart.... He finally knew, she was the missing rib
that he had carelessly broken....

Sometimes, people say things out of moments of fury..... Most often than
not, the outcome could be disastrous and detrimental....

We vent our frustrations 99% at our loved ones.... And even though we know
that we ought to "think twice and act wisely", it's often easier said than
done.

Things happen each day, many of which are beyond our control....

Let us treasure every moment and everyone in our lives....
Tomorrow may never come; give and accept what you have today.


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